Resolving Misunderstandings with Vastu | Addressing Domestic Conflicts

Vastu Remedies for Peace at Home

In the above image, the bedroom (browse this extensive information on bedroom Vastu article) is having an extension of Southeast towards East (it is also important to know about Advantages of east facing house and its disadvantages) side and there is no door for this bedroom, the toilet is at Northwest extension of the northwest, this comes under secret Vastu, generally, these problems may not be found by a common man or Vaastu learners.

This position of construction causes him a great problem at his house. Due to this construction, the walks towards Northwest and Southeast is heavy and air passing through all the way from Southeast corner to Northwest corner. He lost unexpected amount in his business and quarrel starts in the home and automatically misunderstandings started.

After getting huge losses in his business, he approached one vastu consultant in Rajasthan and later Ramanatham turned to one vastu expert in AP and finally solved his problems. Eventually, what he lost, money, time, peace, health, and further suffered from a lot of differences in life.

Finally, he spent some amount and set right the things in his house, afterward, the couple never complaint on each other and move with smiles in their nest. Total the cost of his negligence comes to 85 lac rupees only. He never bothers about 85 lac rupees, his idea is not to spend money on consultancy.

Adjustment in life is most preferred to make your life peaceful. You should keep on co-operating with your spouse whether he/she is not understanding well. This is life.

Life is not a 3 hours movie to spoil. Once differences start in life, it may never stop. Jnana (Knowledge) is most important for human beings. Unfortunately, some residents never had such knowledge and spoiled their life themselves. Be wise and enjoy your family life.

Nowadays the style in construction is open kitchens, we can find many such structures in Villas (Villa Vastu), generally, these open kitchens are presenting troubles if the structure is not made with Vaasthu principles.

Vastu for Couple Fight

Due to the client's lucullan life, and belonging to the palatial family, we never wish to say anything about them here. Excuse us to hide their name and city too. Please treat the below as a story not the real.

This is the right place to say about one issue which happened in Hyderabad. As per our client request, we hide their names and place too.

Mr. Pradeep is doing import and export business, money lending, foreign exchange. Indeed they are very rich.

He bought one villa and asked one best vastu consultant in Hyderabad to visit the villa, after hearing their fee, he approached another consultant and bought it.

The first 3 months were moved happily in that property. Later he observed a number of issues that constantly and continuously arising. He is so irritating all the days and shouting on his wife without reason.

Misunderstandings started in the home and she left to her parents home exactly on his birthday, in the year 2013. Never came back after long shuttle diplomacy mediations.

Almost 1 year, he lived single and finally done some corrections and came out from that property and bought another one with one expert's suggestions, this time he never compromised and settled his life. All became happy when he shifted to another property.

End Tip: Believe it or not, if he gets 2/3 days holidays, he is going to Singapore or Dubai to enjoy the days with his girl-friends.

He is maintaining total 3 girlfriends. He bought homes to all girl-friends. But for Vastu consultation, he is looking for a Vastu person who offers below 1000 rupees.

Domestic Violence & Vastu

Due to several reasons, female members continuously face domestic violence. Most of them were move in their homes with

Life is a series of adjustments with other family members and even surroundings too. This is an inviolable principle.

Situations have come about in the country and the whole world today such that all family members are confined to their home only and they don’t have any opportunity to pursue any other avocations.

You cannot go to clubs or parties or a movie around with friends and the like.

You can’t relax seeing a movie or a football or cricket match. On top of it, children have stayed in home and hopefully do their homework or play.

Somehow, all this would pass away, and then misery starts.

Mainly because what we have neglected throughout our life we are not able to capture.

If you capture that then you spend time harmoniously with brothers, sisters, parents or children.

After some time this also may be boring because you have forgotten the creative personality of your mind.

So indulge in other activities so that you will not pick up quarrels on small things and neglect harmony.

Instead of living with tiny problems we indulge to magnify them as if it is insurmountable. For situations to develop like this enforced unity is not necessary.

In many families we see discord.

Many of these discords can be easily sorted out if the environment in the house is conducive. What we mean is infra environment.

In all living spaces everybody is impatient to talk about the virtues of the Northeast and problems of the Southwest.

This is the biggest tragedy.

If in the house you ensure minimum movement between Northwest and Southeast a large proportion of these avoidable frictions would automatically disappear.

Generally, the presiding deities of these two sources namely fire and air promote this harmony then join together and when joined together caused disharmony.

One may laugh at this recipe but may try and give us a report.

We Should Respect Our Family Members To Avoid Misunderstanding in Our Home

Today we see many ladies running their families even while hiding all the miseries they are encountering in their life. (As if one is trying to hide painful teeth while talking.)

Suffering with family problems, unable to share their disgust with anybody (which would have reduced their misery to a significant extent) are some how waiting for the inevitable things to happen.

In family life husband and wife should have to find adjustment with each other, when there is a conflict no one would benefit.

On the other hand their family would come to ruins. We cannot estimate the misery of those parents whose daughter is caught in such a miserable situation at her in-laws place. It is not necessary to somehow manage the family. What is required is family life should be HAPPY and PEACEFUL and REALLY enjoyable.

Husband and wife should develop mutual friendship towards this end.

Praying the almighty is helpful in this scheme up things. We do hope and pray we notice this.

Corona Virus (COVID-19) - Lockdown Situations

Corona virus is an adverse situation, shall we compare this to the first day of school by the child where he has to park with his mother’s company and toys company.

For this it is an adverse situation, for the parents, it is a compelling requirement. Nature our parent, is giving us an opportunity to learn.

This can be compared to the day when our parents were sending us to school. The child is losing its choices and the parents insist on this event.

For the child it is a miserable day but for the parents, this is an important requirement. So as nature bestowed its views of harmony through this Corona virus. Let us resolve to learn the lesson.

Every adverse situation has the purpose of giving us a message.

While suffering a wise man picks of this message and a fool cursingly leaves with the misery only.

It is Churchill who said one should utilize the bad situation as an opportunity to evolve. Corona Virus is one like that.

No doubt this is an adverse situation. Learning from the situation and consequences thereof and imbibing them in our daily life is a choice which a wise person or a group or a nation indulges in.

Only fools become victims of adverse situations and do not learn anything.

Now that we have realized how to make use of this unforeseen situation confine ourselves in the family and try to understand each other which we took it for granted and unfortunately it is not so.

Crisis Management:

How brand companies are addressing the coronavirus. Their plans are always positive and creative. They never check up on negative thoughts and they never wish to experience adverse results. Likewise, residents should have patience in this pandemic and utilize this time to learn new things. Be patient, should not develop misunderstandings in the home. It develops negativity and finally may spoil the family rules.